He who angers you controls you!

The problem with anxiety is that you are always ready to freak out. You can't control it. To you, the outcome of any situation is has 99% possibility of being tragic. You will lose everything.

When you freak out. The person gets to point at you and say this person is unbalanced do not trust his judgment.

You might be right. Their judgment might be tainted. But they own you. Until they declare you of sound mind and body, your opinion means nothing.